posted by Victor & Freda on Jun 24
Some say that marriage is a blessing from heaven, and there is also added that they live in hell after marriage. What makes them say that? What causes this works for some people, but the marriage failed in others? Is there a magic potion to fix a bad relationship?
In recent years, marriage has become a phenomenon in itself. In the western world, all means are used to fix it. People spend years to find their soul mate and when they finally found someone suitable, they then want to get rid of it. If you look at the evolution of the institution of marriage, you may find that it only becomes imperative to look good in their social environment.
Initially there is polygamy, but now many of those who lost their trust in institutions. Living together has become commonplace even in eastern states. What is the basic difference between living together and getting married? Those who succeeded in going all “live together” without marriage say they understand each other in a special way. They say that there is no limit because each understands the limits of each and will not limit one another. There is mutual respect and free.
Ah! That’s why. Wedding restrict your freedom. Marriage is a commitment, sacrifice, love, responsibility and sharing. Who would want to commit if you can get whatever you want without worrying about anything? At the time of emotional and physical needs met, why should care about things that are not desirable. In marriage, they need they need an appointment to meet them, their revenue share, and understand each other. In living together is a different thing and is more easily implemented. You are free to bring your life without anxiety and also enjoy the satisfaction of togetherness. In the marriage either before or after love, there is a limit sense. We can not continue to ask because they are two people who come from different backgrounds.
Moreover, men and women are different species and they think and act differently. They are united with each other through marriage. It takes years to know each other. Where most men do not believe in showing their feelings, they better beat. On the other side of the man who thinks all they did was for love. This may not be communicated in a good way and carried them to all sorts of problems.
Most women believe that they are excluded and are not expected in most of the activities of the men. This is general advice for all women. Believe that he loves you. This strong belief can produce positive results. Accept him as such and should never justify the time he was angry. Invite discussion back at him in a relaxed state. Appreciate them whenever they do something good and give praise. Men on their part would be more appreciated if you promise not to bother them if it does not really matter. Following these two tips will allow you to enjoy life happily ever after like in a fairy tale.