posted by Victor & Freda on Sep 21
There’s nothing better than sitting in the comfort of your home meeting people. You can flip on your computer with your hot chocolate, and talk to people for as long as you would like to. The only problem is what you will talk about when messaging back and forth. This is what drives many people away from online dating. They feel as though they don’t have what it takes to date online because they don’t ever know what to type. The good news is you’re about to find out, and you can return to this list as you need while you’re chatting.
So you’re senior dating at 50plus-club.com, and you meet someone interesting. The conversation starts off with the classic hellos and how are you, but then it goes silent. Here’s what you can say:
- How long have you been on this website?
- Do you like it?
- Have you found many interesting people on here?
- What kinds of things do you like to do?
- What did you do today?
- What do you do for work?
- Do you have any children?
- Why did you decide to start dating online?
As you ask the questions, allow the person you’re chatting with to answer them as much as he wants, and then answer them yourself. If you share something in common with the person, point that out. This will make the conversation last longer, and as you and him speak, other topics may arise which will keep you from having to ask any other questions.
However, once the conversation dies down, don’t be afraid to ask the next question. Be natural about it. You don’t want to fire the questions at the person because then it will feel more like an interrogation than a chat.
Now that you know what types of things to say when dating online, get out there and start making conversation. You’ll find that it’s easier the more times you do it, so practice, practice, practice.